About Alexandra Holovitz

Intimacy Coach & Subconscious Expert | Hypnotherapist

You crush it at work — the deals, the boardroom, the team. You handle it all.
People call you confident, unstoppable, a natural leader.

But at home… you freeze.

You want connection, intimacy, desire — yet you feel stuck.
She’s distant, conversations feel tense, and somehow your confidence disappears when it matters most.
You replay moments in your head, wondering why it’s never enough.
Impostor syndrome sneaks in love.

I’ve been there.
By my late 20s, I “made it”: London, corner office, recognition.
Outwardly successful — inwardly exhausted, lonely, disconnected.

Then I hired my first coach. I turned inward.
Hypnotherapy, tantra, deep inner work taught me what no leadership program ever did:
Emotions aren’t weakness — they’re intelligence.
Pleasure isn’t a luxury — it’s the body’s wisdom.
And intimacy? It’s a skill — one that can be learned, rewired, and mastered.

Now, I help high-achieving men like you:
💠 Release the pressure, shame, and isolation that come from always “being on”
💠 Reconnect with your body, desire, and vitality
💠 Lead with calm, grounded confidence — in life and in love
💠 Transform tension into effortless passion and connection

Through my Hypno-Somatic Method, you’ll integrate performance with presence, ambition with intimacy, mastery with aliveness.

You’ve conquered the boardroom — now it’s time to conquer your SELF:
your subconscious, your emotions, your life-force.
So you can thrive — at home, in love, and in life.

My expertise and certifications

The Energy I Bring To Our Co-Creation

Self-leadership Fulfillment Presence Desire Vitality Connection Power Intimacy Confidence Alignment

“Your success shouldn't come at the cost of your energy, intimacy, or sense of aliveness."

-Alexandra

My Personal Story

Expected to be a boy, I spent my 20s and 30s hustling to prove myself — in the corporate corner office, on cruise-ship spa floors, in every high-pressure role I could find. I chased outer success, validation, approval… all the things that only widened the void inside me — until I realised I lost connection to the most important thing: my joy =  authentic SELF.

From corporate to cruise-ship spa girl to tantric coach, I’ve reinvented myself from the inside out — and made love to every part of me: the good, the messy, the shadowy, and everything in between.

As a certified hypnotherapist, bodyworker, and sexologist, I’ve seen it all. I help high-achievers reclaim their authentic expression, unlock the creative, orgasmic life-force within, and experience deep intimacy, abundance, and fulfillment in both intimacy-life and business.

I’m not here to fix you. I’m here to walk beside you as you remember who you truly are. This isn’t surface-level advice. It’s cellular remembering — mind, body, and spirit — the kind that turns numbness, shame, doubt into sovereignty, and deep self-devotion.

Your masculine power isn’t gone. It’s waiting for you to come home — to your body, your presence, your full, unapologetic self.

Training/Background

Diploma in Orgasmic Hypnosis Facilitation — Richard Sullo, Las Vegas (2024) 

Sacred Sexuality Mentor & Advanced Bodywork Training — Life-Force Academy (2023)

Tantric Dearmouring and Energetic Bodywork  (2021) 

Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist — (2020)

Tantric Bodywork Practitioner — International School of Temple Arts (2019)

Diploma in Psychosexuality — London, UK (2018)

NLP & Life Coaching Certification – London Coaching Academy (2016) 

Bachelor of Business and Commerce — University (2006)

…and most importantly, a lifelong student of growth, intimacy, and life itself.

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Mentorship

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Orgasmic Hypno Beginner Bundle

3 FREE hypnosis tracks to reset your sensual energy, awaken deeper self-awareness, love, pleasure, and train your mind for stronger orgasms

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